Thursday, August 30, 2012

September 2012 Selection

The Snobs have selected Snow Flower and the Secret Fan by Lisa See as our September selection. Charlene has graciously agreed to host.

From the author's website:
A language kept a secret for a thousand years forms the backdrop for an unforgettable novel of two Chinese women whose friendship and love sustains them through their lives.
This absorbing novel – with a storyline unlike anything Lisa See has written before – takes place in 19th century China when girls had their feet bound, then spent the rest of their lives in seclusion with only a single window from which to see.  Illiterate and isolated, they were not expected to think, be creative, or have emotions. But in one remote county, women developed their own secret code, nu shu – "women's writing" – the only gender-based written language to have been found in the world.  Some girls were paired as "old-sames" in emotional matches that lasted throughout their lives.  They painted letters on fans, embroidered messages on handkerchiefs, and composed stories, thereby reaching out of their windows to share their hopes, dreams, and accomplishments.
An old woman tells of her relationship with her "old-same," their arranged marriages, and the joys and tragedies of motherhood—until a terrible misunderstanding written on their secret fan threatens to tear them apart. With the detail and emotional resonance of Memoirs of a Geisha, Snow Flower and the Secret Fan delves into one of the most mysterious and treasured relationships of all time—female friendship.
The Book Snobs Gathering

The Snobs at Charlene's home on Monday, September 24, at 6:30 p.m. We shared wine and a delicious Asian food feast.

Snow Flower and the Secret Fan was an excellent book for discussion. The relationship between the two main characters was a source of differences of opinions. The practice of foot binding was discussed and we looked a photos of bound feet. We also discussed the importance of honesty on the relationship and the role of women within the family and the community.

Wednesday, August 8, 2012

August 2012 Selection

Marta will host in August as the Snobs discuss all three books of the Fifty Shades Trilogy.
The Book Snobs Gathering

Marta's Home
Tuesday, August 28, 6:30 p.m.
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Marta served appetizers and wine followed by chicken stir fry. Dessert was delicious chewy brownies and vanilla ice cream.

The meeting room was accessorized with handcuffs and other appropriate accoutrement. Our hostess also gave door prizes which required the Snobs to answer questions about their own love lives, anonymously, of course. We also answered which character in the book we most identified with.

This trilogy was a very interesting set of books for discussion. It caused us to stretch our limits and let down our guards in discussing the relationship between Anastasia and Christian and many of the other characters. Topics of discussion included lifestyle choices including BDSM and sexual abuse of children. We discussed the reasons for Christian's sexual proclivities and for Anastasia's submission. All in all, we had a lot of fun discussing these books.